You should like your man completely. If you think that he would be better off if he lost weight, or if he got a different job, then you need to look for another. It will be easier to find a new man than to change who you are dating. That's why you should never try to change the following things in your partner:
1. Its weight.
If you want your man to be a bit slimmer or more pumped, your advice to him to go to the gym will only make him angry. If he is pleased with himself, then you must be pleased. In the end, you have to love your partner as he is.
2. His bad habits.
If you can't stand the fact that he drinks a bottle of beer every day, get away from him. He will not change until he wants it himself, which means you cannot help him.
3. His family relationships.
If he is in a relationship with his mom, it will not change. You should be happy for him. If you try to postpone them, then most likely he will leave you, not her.
4. His love for animals.
If he has a cat or a dog that you cannot stand, you don’t need to give him ultimatums and force him to get rid of them. It will not benefit your relationship, if they continue at all after that.
5. His friends.
If you do not like his friends, you can try to embroil them or so that they spend less time together. But even if it works out, he will most likely find new friends like himself. He is attracted to such people, because these are the ones with whom he is able to build relationships.
6. His hobby.
If he likes to play football, you can't take it away from him. Or you do not want him to be happy? If he has a hobby that you don’t like, you’ll have to close your eyes to it.
7. His dreams.
If he always dreamed of having many children, you cannot make him change his mind. Children are a very important life decision, so surely he thought about it a lot and for a long time. You do not want to deprive him of what will make him very happy.
8. His food.
Nothing will change if you replace all the fast food in its fridge with vegetables. He still quietly eats what he wants. Just because you control your kitchen doesn’t mean you can control what goes into his stomach.
9. His career.
If he loves his job, you can't expect him to change it. Some people attach more importance to their favorite work, and not to the size of their salaries. If you do not support his decision to do what he likes, then you should not be together.