Do not allow yourself to spill.Do not believe that you can relax, because she has been your girlfriend for many years, and the relationship has become comfortable. Do not let the spark go out. Do not stop seeking her the same way you did when you first met her, when you were not sure if she would agree to go on a date with you.
Drive her to where you have not been before. And it does not matter that you have already visited all the cinemas and restaurants in your city. Be creative. Go bowling. Go to the garden to collect apples. Watch sunset along the beach. Print your photos and paste them into a photo album.
Don't let relationships get boring.Of course, you can’t meet her dreams every weekend, she doesn’t expect it from you - but you don’t have to wait months to remind her how much you love her, to arrange something special for her, to make her feel as you still strongly want her, as in the beginning.
If you want to keep her, then you need to exert as much effort as at the beginning when you conquered it.You cannot stop making compliments and various pleasant little things to her, thinking that she will be with you, no matter what. You cannot take her for granted, because you’ve got used to the fact that she is always there and you don’t remember what it is like to be without her.
Even if you already feel that you know everything about her, you should never stop asking questions. You should never stop talking heart to heart. Getting to know each other, because you both evolve and change over the years.
The worst thing you can do is treat it like with furniture.Instead of watching TV at dinner, turn it off so you can talk. Instead of meeting friends on the weekend, set aside time just for the two of you.
Take time for her.Present tenseto talk about something other than household chores and problems. Do not let your relationship become a predictable routine. Do not get used too much to this comfort, because you will begin to take everything she does, for granted.
No matter how long you are together, speak to her unexpectedly those very three words. Hug her longer. Kiss her forehead just like that, not anticipating sex. Remind her how much she means to you, how much you value everything she does for you.
Make her rejoice in you, as at the beginning of your relationship.Let the butterflies flutter in her belly again.
If you want to convince her to stay with you forever, then you must give her a reason to stay. You have to make her feel loved. And she will do the same.