There are only two rules in personal life that really work. They are suitable for both men and women.
And those who do not know them are doomed to waste time and nerves on unsuitable people.
It should be easy from the start. From the first minutes. A person who immediately feels like an old acquaintance suits you more than the one you need to court for years.
The guy with whom you are ready to retire in the toilet of the shopping center in fifteen minutes is better than the one to whom you have been writing letters without an answer for seven years.
The girl who immediately shows interest to you is better than the impregnable beauty that you need to bring to the Bahamas.
Simply means good. Difficult means bad.
This is an axiom. Do not prove it. In general, you do not need to prove anything in relationships at your own expense.
No need to seek anyone, to adapt to anyone and to run for anyone.By doing this once, you will do it every day, and in response you will only see a capricious dissatisfied face.
If you do not immediately go wrong, do not catch fire, do not smoke, do not pull the cat by the tail. So - not your man. Difficult relationships are suitable only for those who are bored and who have a lot of free time.
All the rest of this suffering only spoil the nerves.
You should not take out difficult relationships on yourself. Relationships in which you only do what you are dancing to someone's tune are demeaning. Sooner or later your patience will run out.
Do not let yourself be drawn into complex relationships.
This statement also does not need proof. As soon as the relationship stopped bringing joy, and began to bring filth, stop this phenomenon at the root.
Do not get used to disassembly, tears and smashing dishes. Leave long conversations, reproaches, recriminations.
This not normal! This is the way to hell! Just out of the relationship goes joy - they become useless. It would seem - something easier.
But many people chew the chewed-chewed hay of their offenses for years! They occupy their brain with unnecessary disassembly! Do not do this!
As soon as you understand that your words take away joy - close your mouth.Disassembly begins - go away.
A person only wants to blame and blame - do not let the feeling of guilt give you a hand. Get out! Relationships are for joy.
All other relationships “for the sake of children”, “because everyone lives like this”, “out of habit”, “because it is even worse without it” can simply be taken and taken to the dustbin.
For me, the main rules are only two.