Two reasons why you just can not find a good man

In the world there are no good men? Girls, you're obviously missing something ...

When I was 17, I either liked the person right away or didn't like it right away. I did not think long about why I feel it. I was either drawn to a person or not. And if so, he became my best friend. And if not, then I did not even recognize its existence, because I simply did not have time for all this nonsense.
Now, over the years, everything has become more complicated. I began to realize that most people are not what they seem at first glance. I began to devote more time to consider a person. And as a result, I met many wonderful people - all because I wanted to understand their strength and forgive their weaknesses.

Of course, time is good for us as regards wisdom and understanding of people and friendship. But with a romantic relationship is not so. That is why people usually go over each other even faster when they are looking for a life partner.

Many women are literally looking for the perfect man, not allowing him any errors, and even abandoning him for absurd reasons.A friend of mine once told me about her recent date with a man who seemed to be perfect for her. He has a great job, he also likes to travel, shares her passion for photography, he took her to a chic restaurant, they communicated perfectly, and he was a real gentleman.

Perfect, right? But not for my girlfriend. At first, she simply said that she felt that he was not for her. And then, finally, she admitted that she did not like him, because he had ... short hands!

..What?!

I will tell you that this guy obviously did not look like some tyrannosaur with tiny handles. His “flaw” in general, very few people would have noticed. But she noticed! She was so busy searching for his shortcomings that she just found him, and when it did, she focused on him so that he blocked all the advantages.

That's right: the ideal man still has flaws.

And many women go on dates only to find at least something bad in a man, then to say this eternal "There are no longer any good men." Why do women do that? There are two reasons for this:

1. Women are so determined to find the perfect man that they do not make any compromises.Some have not moved away from past unsuccessful relationships, others are fed up with the months or years spent with someone who has turned out to be an inappropriate partner. As a result, women become too cautious with the next man.

2. With each failed relationship, the female list of men’s desired qualities increases. With every unsuccessful man or date, a woman understands what she wants and adds it to her list of requirements. But the truth is that the ideal does not happen: neither men nor women.

Each of us has something that does not particularly like the opposite sex. But still, there are people who will love you, despite this - because there is a lot of good that overlaps the bad. The main thing is to understand what you can put up with, what to close your eyes, what is really not so important, and what is important for you.

When we stop looking for perfection, then we allow ourselves to be happy.


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    Two reasons why you just can not find a good man

    Two reasons why you just can not find a good man

    Two reasons why you just can not find a good man

    Two reasons why you just can not find a good man

    Two reasons why you just can not find a good man

    Two reasons why you just can not find a good man

    Two reasons why you just can not find a good man

    Two reasons why you just can not find a good man

    Two reasons why you just can not find a good man

    Two reasons why you just can not find a good man Two reasons why you just can not find a good man Two reasons why you just can not find a good man Two reasons why you just can not find a good man Two reasons why you just can not find a good man Two reasons why you just can not find a good man Two reasons why you just can not find a good man Two reasons why you just can not find a good man Two reasons why you just can not find a good man Two reasons why you just can not find a good man Two reasons why you just can not find a good man Two reasons why you just can not find a good man Two reasons why you just can not find a good man Two reasons why you just can not find a good man Two reasons why you just can not find a good man Two reasons why you just can not find a good man Two reasons why you just can not find a good man Two reasons why you just can not find a good man Two reasons why you just can not find a good man Two reasons why you just can not find a good man Two reasons why you just can not find a good man Two reasons why you just can not find a good man Two reasons why you just can not find a good man Two reasons why you just can not find a good man Two reasons why you just can not find a good man