When you love, you accept all the disadvantages

When you love someone, you accept a person just the way he is, with all his flaws. You do not complain that the relationship could be better if he had changed something in himself. You are happy with how everything is already there. You would never ask him to change, because you fell in love with him like that - an imperfect, imperfect person - and it would be dishonest to ask him to be someone other than yourself.
When you love someone, you accept his little oddities. You accept his past. You accept his experience.

This does not mean that you allow him to treat you badly. This does not mean that you find excuses for his bad behavior. This does not mean that you are silent when he does something bad.

If he treats you disrespectfully, if his behavior is unacceptable, then you need to leave. You need to stop trying to fix what's broken, and do what's best for you — leave.

But if you are in a healthy relationship in which you respect each other and remain faithful, then the rules are different.

When you love someone, you understand why he might fall for you or not trust you. You may not like it, but you understand why he behaves this way.You understand how the situation looks in his eyes.

When you love someone, you accept his apology, when he realizes that you have adjusted, because you know that he is angry not with you, but at something that was in his past, that he has not yet fully released .

When you love someone, you give him another chance if he promises to change and become better. You give him the opportunity to do everything right, not remembering his mistakes.

When you love someone, you accept his faults. You accept his experience. You accept that he is not perfect.

You do not blame him for having problems with trust. You do not make him feel guilty that he is still experiencing the pain of the past. You support him. You stay close and help.

When you love someone, you never point a person to his shortcomings. You do not use his injury against him in a quarrel. You do not underestimate his self-esteem.

When you love someone, you try your best to understand what he went through. You invite him to open up.You listen to his story. You are not afraid of his tears.

When you love someone, you are like one team. You are trying to help each other. You are trying to convince him that his story does not have to repeat, because you will never hurt him as you did to him before.

When you love someone, you don't need to be perfect, because he is already perfect for you.

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  • When you love, you accept all the disadvantages

    When you love, you accept all the disadvantages

    When you love, you accept all the disadvantages

    When you love, you accept all the disadvantages

    When you love, you accept all the disadvantages

    When you love, you accept all the disadvantages

    When you love, you accept all the disadvantages

    When you love, you accept all the disadvantages

    When you love, you accept all the disadvantages

    When you love, you accept all the disadvantages

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