Stop thinking bad about yourself. Stop it right now. Already enough. Your thoughts about yourself only upset. It's not about your weight. It's not about your lack of something, which, as you think, everyone is paying attention. In fact, everyone is focused only on his cockroaches, so they are too busy to think about yours. They think you look good in this dress. They think you have great shoes. And your new haircut? To hell. She is cool!
You don't need permission to be damn attractive.
Let's say it again:
YOU DO NOT NEED ANYTHING PERMISSION TO BE A DAMNY ATTRACTIVE.
Stop giving power over your feelings about yourself to others: the internet, mom, neighbor, to anyone. What do they know? If only appearance is important to them, then I sympathize with them. This is a very boring life.
If you weigh 50kg and feel sexy - cool, keep up the good work. If you weigh 150 kg and feel sexy - cool, keep up the same.Life is no more beautiful under another line of scales, or with a different nose, with a different breast or Botox. Enough. My dear, ENOUGH! Stop trying to change the world. Start with yourself. Stop giving them power and they will be powerless. Stop trying to adapt to someone. Be yourself.
Change the rules. Be damn fine and don't apologize for that.Do not belittle yourself. Do not hide. Put on that damn sexy dress that you lacked the confidence to wear. Put on a bikini, even if your body is not the most perfect. Damn it, so who cares? Put on even a trash bag! Put on what you want.
Hammer on all around.
Stop being ashamed of your appetite. Do you hear me? Stop doing it! Stop torturing yourself for not being able to drop at least a kilogram. You love food! Do you know what is nicer than being thin? Yes all! You are not less a person, simply because you love to eat.
If you do not doubt your body, then others will not.You yourself teach other people how to look at you, how to talk to you,and if you want to talk about your body, then they will talk about it. But do not give them a place to roam.Look at yourself in the mirror every day and tell yourself that you are damn attractive. Why? BECAUSEYourOPINION IS THE ONLY SO IMPORTANT. If you consider yourself attractive, who dares to say that it is not? If you knew that you knew mathematics perfectly, and then someone came and said that it wasn’t, you wouldn’t believe it, because you know the truth.
If you think your body is stopping you from finding love, then you know what? Your body will stop you from finding love. If you think that you are destined to be one and unhappy until the end of your days, then you know what? You will be alone and miserable for the rest of your days. So stop thinking about it! Stop forgetting that your reality is just what you think and do.
Stop wasting time. This is your only life.